Life Lessons

by Jodifur on October 29, 2008

I was twittering for an idea to blog about and reading blogs when I found this post and this post and decided to indiscriminately steal the idea. I may be way over 25, but here is what I have learned in my 33 years.
1. Be a good friend. Even if you are a better friend to them then they are to you, it will be worth it in the end.
2. Be true to yourself.
3. Accessorize.
4. There are boys you date and boys you marry. You can date a boy you marry but don't ever marry a boy you date. It will not end well.
5. Have a good work ethic.
6. If you don't think it looks good on you, don't buy it. Even if everyone in the room is telling you it looks good on you, you will never wear it.
7. You know your wedding dress when you find it. You do not have to go to 10 more stores and look at 100 more dresses.
8. Don't discount an entire genre of music. I say I hate Country music but I loved the County song my friends danced to at their wedding this weekend.
9. Pretty people also have problems. I used to never believe this but I've found it to be true.
10. Figure out what makes you happy and do it. Be it blogging, reading, knitting, exercising, find something you love to do and make time for it, even if it means time away from your spouse and kids. You will be happier.
11. Date your spouse. Make time for each other. Leave the kids at home, and get out! At least once a month.
12. Don't buy uncomfortable shoes, even if they are adorable and match your outfit perfectly. It's not worth the pain.

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 <a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/05725436868396135562" rel="nofollow October 29, 2008 at 3:52 pm

#12 is so true but you don’t realize this until after age 25! I remember the days of killer shoes and never again!

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 <a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/05725436868396135562" rel="nofollow October 29, 2008 at 3:52 pm

#12 is so true but you don’t realize this until after age 25! I remember the days of killer shoes and never again!

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 <a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/05725436868396135562" rel="nofollow October 29, 2008 at 3:52 pm

#12 is so true but you don’t realize this until after age 25! I remember the days of killer shoes and never again!

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 <a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/05725436868396135562" rel="nofollow October 29, 2008 at 3:52 pm

#12 is so true but you don’t realize this until after age 25! I remember the days of killer shoes and never again!

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 <a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/18053974626461351016" rel="nofollow October 29, 2008 at 4:27 pm

This is a good list. I agree you — Also a good idea for a posting!! Can I SHAMEFULLY borrow/steal it?

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 <a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/18053974626461351016" rel="nofollow October 29, 2008 at 4:27 pm

This is a good list. I agree you — Also a good idea for a posting!! Can I SHAMEFULLY borrow/steal it?

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 <a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/18053974626461351016" rel="nofollow October 29, 2008 at 4:27 pm

This is a good list. I agree you — Also a good idea for a posting!! Can I SHAMEFULLY borrow/steal it?

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 <a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/18053974626461351016" rel="nofollow October 29, 2008 at 4:27 pm

This is a good list. I agree you — Also a good idea for a posting!! Can I SHAMEFULLY borrow/steal it?

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 <a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/18103618447184051230" rel="nofollow October 29, 2008 at 4:35 pm

I’m 100% with you on every single one of these!!

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 <a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/18103618447184051230" rel="nofollow October 29, 2008 at 4:35 pm

I’m 100% with you on every single one of these!!

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 <a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/18103618447184051230" rel="nofollow October 29, 2008 at 4:35 pm

I’m 100% with you on every single one of these!!

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 <a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/18103618447184051230" rel="nofollow October 29, 2008 at 4:35 pm

I’m 100% with you on every single one of these!!

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 kristabella October 29, 2008 at 7:57 pm

I agree with #1 to a certain extent. Because when you have a friend that makes no effort in the friendship and takes advantage, sometimes it is better to cut your losses.

Also, #12 is so right! As I get older I’m all about comfort!

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 kristabella October 29, 2008 at 7:57 pm

I agree with #1 to a certain extent. Because when you have a friend that makes no effort in the friendship and takes advantage, sometimes it is better to cut your losses.

Also, #12 is so right! As I get older I’m all about comfort!

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 kristabella October 29, 2008 at 7:57 pm

I agree with #1 to a certain extent. Because when you have a friend that makes no effort in the friendship and takes advantage, sometimes it is better to cut your losses.

Also, #12 is so right! As I get older I’m all about comfort!

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 kristabella October 29, 2008 at 7:57 pm

I agree with #1 to a certain extent. Because when you have a friend that makes no effort in the friendship and takes advantage, sometimes it is better to cut your losses.

Also, #12 is so right! As I get older I’m all about comfort!

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 She Likes Purple</ October 29, 2008 at 9:52 pm

The wedding dress one is spot-on. You just know. Trust your gut.

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 She Likes Purple</ October 29, 2008 at 9:52 pm

The wedding dress one is spot-on. You just know. Trust your gut.

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 She Likes Purple</ October 29, 2008 at 9:52 pm

The wedding dress one is spot-on. You just know. Trust your gut.

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 She Likes Purple</ October 29, 2008 at 9:52 pm

The wedding dress one is spot-on. You just know. Trust your gut.

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 <a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/00139191935886860839" rel="nofollow October 30, 2008 at 4:24 am

I love it! And I agree with everything.

Could be the start of a book.

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 <a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/00139191935886860839" rel="nofollow October 30, 2008 at 4:24 am

I love it! And I agree with everything.

Could be the start of a book.

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 <a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/00139191935886860839" rel="nofollow October 30, 2008 at 4:24 am

I love it! And I agree with everything.

Could be the start of a book.

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 <a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/00139191935886860839" rel="nofollow October 30, 2008 at 4:24 am

I love it! And I agree with everything.

Could be the start of a book.

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