What exactly is the correct response to this?

by Jodifur on December 31, 2007

"How old is he?" says strange man pointing at Michael in a restaurant where he was shaking his little booty to the mariachi band.
"He'll be 3 in March."
"March what?"
"15th"
"That was my son's birthday. He died. He would be 26. He (pointing at Michael again) reminds me of my son."
"Um, thanks. Sorry for your loss."
"That's ok. No biggie."

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 <a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/15779961065417497337" rel="nofollow December 31, 2007 at 6:36 pm

Ugh. Just ugh. Sounds like you did it as best you could. Although “no biggie?” Good goodness.

If he had kept talking I would’ve figured out how to leave.

Happy New Year.

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 <a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/15779961065417497337" rel="nofollow December 31, 2007 at 6:36 pm

Ugh. Just ugh. Sounds like you did it as best you could. Although “no biggie?” Good goodness.

If he had kept talking I would’ve figured out how to leave.

Happy New Year.

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 <a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/15779961065417497337" rel="nofollow December 31, 2007 at 6:36 pm

Ugh. Just ugh. Sounds like you did it as best you could. Although “no biggie?” Good goodness.

If he had kept talking I would’ve figured out how to leave.

Happy New Year.

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 <a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/15779961065417497337" rel="nofollow December 31, 2007 at 6:36 pm

Ugh. Just ugh. Sounds like you did it as best you could. Although “no biggie?” Good goodness.

If he had kept talking I would’ve figured out how to leave.

Happy New Year.

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 <a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/02901531303924805180" rel="nofollow December 31, 2007 at 7:47 pm

I would have said the same thing.

Even though I’d REALLY want to know why a death of a child elicts “no biggie” as a response.

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 <a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/02901531303924805180" rel="nofollow December 31, 2007 at 7:47 pm

I would have said the same thing.

Even though I’d REALLY want to know why a death of a child elicts “no biggie” as a response.

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 <a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/02901531303924805180" rel="nofollow December 31, 2007 at 7:47 pm

I would have said the same thing.

Even though I’d REALLY want to know why a death of a child elicts “no biggie” as a response.

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 <a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/02901531303924805180" rel="nofollow December 31, 2007 at 7:47 pm

I would have said the same thing.

Even though I’d REALLY want to know why a death of a child elicts “no biggie” as a response.

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 <a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/00557198807136105825" rel="nofollow December 31, 2007 at 8:50 pm

Umm, how uncomfortable for you.

Maybe the “no biggie” response was for your benefit not his. Maybe he didn’t want you to probe (like he did).

I can’t imagine handling it any other way than you did.

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 <a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/00557198807136105825" rel="nofollow December 31, 2007 at 8:50 pm

Umm, how uncomfortable for you.

Maybe the “no biggie” response was for your benefit not his. Maybe he didn’t want you to probe (like he did).

I can’t imagine handling it any other way than you did.

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 <a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/00557198807136105825" rel="nofollow December 31, 2007 at 8:50 pm

Umm, how uncomfortable for you.

Maybe the “no biggie” response was for your benefit not his. Maybe he didn’t want you to probe (like he did).

I can’t imagine handling it any other way than you did.

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 <a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/00557198807136105825" rel="nofollow December 31, 2007 at 8:50 pm

Umm, how uncomfortable for you.

Maybe the “no biggie” response was for your benefit not his. Maybe he didn’t want you to probe (like he did).

I can’t imagine handling it any other way than you did.

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 <a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/14886941703807825266" rel="nofollow December 31, 2007 at 9:43 pm

No biggie?! WTF?

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 <a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/14886941703807825266" rel="nofollow December 31, 2007 at 9:43 pm

No biggie?! WTF?

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 <a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/14886941703807825266" rel="nofollow December 31, 2007 at 9:43 pm

No biggie?! WTF?

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 <a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/14886941703807825266" rel="nofollow December 31, 2007 at 9:43 pm

No biggie?! WTF?

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 <a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/11127692699186571544" rel="nofollow December 31, 2007 at 11:27 pm

people really say ridiculous things, don’t they? ;)

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 <a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/11127692699186571544" rel="nofollow December 31, 2007 at 11:27 pm

people really say ridiculous things, don’t they? ;)

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 <a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/11127692699186571544" rel="nofollow December 31, 2007 at 11:27 pm

people really say ridiculous things, don’t they? ;)

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 <a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/11127692699186571544" rel="nofollow December 31, 2007 at 11:27 pm

people really say ridiculous things, don’t they? ;)

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 <a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/00139191935886860839" rel="nofollow December 31, 2007 at 11:29 pm

“No biggie”?! What a strange response *from him.* I’d say your response was fine.

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 <a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/00139191935886860839" rel="nofollow December 31, 2007 at 11:29 pm

“No biggie”?! What a strange response *from him.* I’d say your response was fine.

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 <a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/00139191935886860839" rel="nofollow December 31, 2007 at 11:29 pm

“No biggie”?! What a strange response *from him.* I’d say your response was fine.

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 <a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/00139191935886860839" rel="nofollow December 31, 2007 at 11:29 pm

“No biggie”?! What a strange response *from him.* I’d say your response was fine.

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 <a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/18010155174814652914" rel="nofollow January 1, 2008 at 1:21 am

I probably would have wanted to say “oh no – what happened?” because I am terribly nosey and inappropriate. Although probably I would have done what you did – and then gotten the heck out of there!

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 <a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/18010155174814652914" rel="nofollow January 1, 2008 at 1:21 am

I probably would have wanted to say “oh no – what happened?” because I am terribly nosey and inappropriate. Although probably I would have done what you did – and then gotten the heck out of there!

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 <a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/18010155174814652914" rel="nofollow January 1, 2008 at 1:21 am

I probably would have wanted to say “oh no – what happened?” because I am terribly nosey and inappropriate. Although probably I would have done what you did – and then gotten the heck out of there!

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 <a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/18010155174814652914" rel="nofollow January 1, 2008 at 1:21 am

I probably would have wanted to say “oh no – what happened?” because I am terribly nosey and inappropriate. Although probably I would have done what you did – and then gotten the heck out of there!

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 <a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/10873698815704306017" rel="nofollow January 2, 2008 at 1:20 am

um WTF???? sheesh what a downer.

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 <a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/10873698815704306017" rel="nofollow January 2, 2008 at 1:20 am

um WTF???? sheesh what a downer.

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 <a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/10873698815704306017" rel="nofollow January 2, 2008 at 1:20 am

um WTF???? sheesh what a downer.

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 <a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/10873698815704306017" rel="nofollow January 2, 2008 at 1:20 am

um WTF???? sheesh what a downer.

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 <a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/10444772652348088595" rel="nofollow January 4, 2008 at 8:53 am

No biggie? What a weird guy?!

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 <a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/10444772652348088595" rel="nofollow January 4, 2008 at 8:53 am

No biggie? What a weird guy?!

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 <a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/10444772652348088595" rel="nofollow January 4, 2008 at 8:53 am

No biggie? What a weird guy?!

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 <a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/10444772652348088595" rel="nofollow January 4, 2008 at 8:53 am

No biggie? What a weird guy?!

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